Thursday, June 26, 2014

Let's Get Real Thursday

Remember this post about toddlers in public restrooms? Let's take that a step further and talk about toddlers in airport restrooms... or really airports/planes in general, shall we? :)

So last week I took Grayson by myself to Illinois via airplane. Which means lots and lots of time in the airport, the airport restrooms and the airplane. First, let me jump on my small soapbox to say that airports need indoor play places! Malls have them, why not airports? It's genius - let the kids run all their energy out before jumping on a plane... That would have been helpful to me. Otherwise you will find me "racing" up and down the airport repeatedly trying to run off some of Grayson's energy... and I was not the only parent doing so. Okay, stepping off the soapbox.

Then when either of you need to "go potty", it's a hot mess! Why aren't airport bathroom stalls larger than the average stall? I mean, you literally have baggage to take with you - you need more room! So I'm trying to shimmy myself and Grayson and both our carry-ons into this little bitty stall and attempt to finagle it all onto one hook (and that's if your lucky enough to have a hook in your stall, most have broken off), trying to sit myself onto the "potty" and watch that Grayson doesn't drop his bear (that he just had to hold onto and not pack into some bag) onto the gross bathroom floor. And then the same goes for when we tumble out of the stall to change his diaper.... Where is a mom to put all the bags and bears hanging off her shoulders and arms to do a diaper change!? Why aren't there hooks or a shelf or something!? A. Hot. Mess.

Running after my energetic two-year-old, because he is SO excited about getting on the airplane, I am wiped out from the bathroom experience and having a hard time keeping up with him! I even bribe him with a new toy from one of the shops if we can just sit down for a minute! Then we finally get to board .... Thank God for family boarding! Really, I appreciate it, however, why does it have to be after the A group when half the plane is full already? You get on and get situated - paci or sucker in mouth for take off, ipad/dvd player on the ready... just to wait a half hour before we actually start moving... and toddler just love that! ;)

Also, what in the world did I pack in my carry-on before I was a mom!? Because now I have Grayson's little backpack (which I imagined him holding himself... NOT) filled to the brim with diapers and wipes and then my backpack filled with toys, books, dvd player, dvds and snacks.

Grayson eating peanuts and enjoying some cars. He loved having his own seat!
 
What would we do without video entertainment?
 This is back in December when we flew for Christmas

And when waiting in the airport, never forget the stickers! 



Anyone else have some fun stories of toddlers and airports? Let's get real, we have all been there or will be there one day... Let's share the tips... and the recovery chocolate! ;)

Tuesday, June 24, 2014

Illinois Getaway

For my birthday, Tony surprised me with a flight to Illinois for Grayson and I! It was perfectly timed during one of Tony's trips and I could not have been more thrilled to get to go see family and relax a little in Illinois.

I was a little nervous flying alone with Grayson for the first time (expect a Get Real post soon!), but it went mostly well and we had a great time!

Grayson got to ride the "tractor" with Papa

 


He was definitely never short on attention
 
 
We had a play date with our favorite Illinois buddies, Ellis and Olive
 
 
 
The best part was watching Grayson and his cousin, Koen, play together! It made my heart so happy to see them play and have fun and see Grayson look up to his big cousin!
 
We went to a park and splash pad one morning.
 
 
 
And we got to be there to celebrate Koen graduating Kindergarten!!
 
 
While celebrating, the boys made a fort... Grayson loves his cousin!


We had such a great time and our visits are never long enough... But we definitely missed daddy and were both wiped out!

And somehow we never seem to get a picture of Grayson with his Nana or Gigi on these trips!! Sorry moms, we'll have to make sure to get better at capturing moments with you too! Grayson did have lots of fun and love from his Nana and Gigi!

Be looking for the next few Get Real posts - I've accumulated quite a few from this trip! ;)

Wednesday, June 18, 2014

A boy and his bear

I'm taking a short break from Let's Get Real Thursdays last week and this week, because Grayson and I are hopping on a plane today for a quick vacation to Illinois!!! We (I) are so excited and cannot wait to spend some much needed time with family and friends! In the meantime, enjoy some pics documenting the friendship and love between a boy and his bear....

I don't remember exactly when it happened, but sometime last fall Grayson picked up my Disney Duffy bear (that Tony got me on our Disney vacation here) and has claimed for himself ever since.

 

Duffy is with him everywhere... He is the best at cuddling...


 helping Grayson wrestle daddy...



  and even joins us for some meal/snack times.






 Duffy's his best buddy for sick days on the couch.


 And you can spot him in the background of most pictures.



This boy loves his bear.

 
 
I'll post next week with lots of updates and pictures from our trip!
 

Monday, June 16, 2014

Grayson-isms

Some things this kid says are hilarious.. and some just melt your heart!

Convo #1:
On the ride home from school...
Me - Grayson did you have a good day at  school today??
Grayson - Yep!
Me - Did you play with all your friends? Tate? and Jacob? and Rylee?
Grayson - Yep!
Me - Grayson who is your best friend?
Grayson - Daddy!
Heart explodes into a thousand pieces.

Convo #2:
While changing a poopy diaper
TonyPhew, Grayson, you have a stinky diaper!
Grayson - Sowy (sorry) Daddy!  smiles real big :)

Convo #3:
While play-fighting with daddy over one of my plastic bracelets..
TonyMine
Grayson - Mine
Tony - My Precious
Grayson - My Pwecious! Pwecious!
And now refers to that bracelet as such all the time...


Friday, June 13, 2014

Father's Day

Before I got married, I didn't think much of Father's Day. My parents were divorced and I lacked in that area and saw no reason to celebrate. When I married Tony, I had the privilege of having my father-in-law (dad-in-love) stand in for that area and celebrate him. When we had Grayson, I felt like Father's Day was finally I holiday that I could fully get around and celebrate.

In the almost 3 Father's Days since Grayson was born, I've never written anything really about just how much I love and appreciate Tony and how he is as Grayson's daddy. When Grayson was born, Tony had 6 weeks left of seminary before graduation. In those 6 weeks of final papers and sermons and tests, he was a dad. And everyday he came home from class and/or work and was amazing with Grayson and with me (dealing with post baby emotions and hormones). In the weeks following Grayson's birth, he had the pressure of finishing seminary well and finding a new job and a new home for us. Tony, I never really told you how proud I was and am of you for handling it all so well. You provided for us. In the midst of the end of seminary and interviews, you were the best dad and husband.

I have never known, experienced or seen a better daddy than you, sweet husband!  You hold our family together and lead us with boldness. I grow more and more proud of you each day as I watch you father our son. You teach him by example. You play with him with such energy and happiness - it is a joy to watch the two of you play. You hold him and cuddle with such love and tenderness. You discipline him with love and respect. You show him how to be a good husband so that one day he will follow your example. You live out your faith to him and me and lead us to the cross daily.

Thank you for being such an amazing daddy. I love and appreciate you so much for all that you do for your family.

 
 
 


 
 
 








 

 Happy Father's Day Tony!

Wednesday, June 11, 2014

Happy Birthday Seester!

Today is my little sister's BIRTHDAY!

My sister is 5 years younger than me and completely turned my world upside down when I was suddenly not the only (spoiled) child - but I love her and thank God for her. We have been through so much together. We haven't always gotten along, but we've always been there for each other when it counts...

Cheerleading together :)
 


You were there for me as my Maid of Honor at my wedding (can't wait for yours!)
We always know how to have fun when we are together!
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I got the honor of being there for you through your pregnancy and to watch that sweet boy of yours be born - You made me a sister and an aunt and I am SO grateful!
Since moving to Texas, we don't get to see each other as much... But you were there for me to celebrate Grayson and love him as much as I do Koen.




Stephanie, you are so strong. I admire you for what a great mom you are and how you push through when life tries to tear you down. I am so blessed to get to be your sister.


Happy Birthday sweet girl!!